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Event Prep Checklist
Your Complete Lifestyle Event Guide
Pre-Event Discussion (1-2 weeks before)
Have these conversations with your partner(s) before the event:
Discussed expectations and desires for the evening
Agreed on boundaries (what's on/off the table)
Established a safe word or signal
Discussed comfort level with solo vs. together play
Talked about how to handle "taking one for the team" scenarios
Agreed on check-in frequency during event
Discussed alcohol/substance limits
Talked about what to do if one person wants to leave
Reviewed safer sex practices and barrier usage
Confirmed STI testing status is current
What to Pack
Essentials
Photo ID
Event tickets/confirmation
Cash (for tips, cover, etc.)
Phone charger
House/car keys (secured)
Play Supplies
Condoms (multiple sizes/types)
Dental dams
Personal lubricant
Breath mints
Wet wipes
Personal Care
Toiletries/hygiene items
Change of underwear
Makeup touch-up kit
Hair ties/clips
Medications (if needed)
Comfort Items
Snacks/protein bars
Water bottle
Comfortable shoes for later
Light jacket/wrap
Small bag for items
Day-Of Checklist
Eaten a good meal (not too heavy)
Showered and groomed
Reviewed boundaries with partner
Confirmed safe word/signal
Phone charged
Transportation arranged (rideshare, DD, etc.)
Emergency contact knows general whereabouts
Valuables secured/left at home
At the Event
Remember the Golden Rules
No means no. Maybe means no. Only an enthusiastic yes means yes. Respect everyone's boundaries. What happens at the event stays at the event.
Located partner check-in spot
Identified exits and quiet spaces
Introduced yourselves to hosts/staff
Toured the venue together
Pacing alcohol/substance intake
Regular check-ins with partner
Respecting "no photography" rules
Using condoms/barriers as agreed
Post-Event Debrief (Within 24-48 hours)
Schedule dedicated time to discuss the experience together: