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Lifestyle Club & Resort Etiquette

Present like a seasoned guest: from vetting venues to reading the room and tipping staff with class.

5 min readLifestyle clubs & house parties
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Before you arrive

Confirm membership status, guest list approval, and ID requirements. Many clubs need applications or host referrals.

Pack essentials: government ID, condoms and barriers, breath mints, small gratuity cash, and a change of clothes for the ride home.

  • Dress the themeRespect posted dress codes. When in doubt, upscale cocktail wear beats casual.
  • Digital privacyPower down cameras. Never assume photos or stories are permitted.
  • Arrival timingAim for the opening hour to meet hosts and learn the layout.

Read the energy

Start with conversation. Compliment attire or ask how guests discovered the venue. Wait for enthusiastic invitations before touching.

If you are unsure, ask a host. They can explain hidden rooms, playroom etiquette, or introduce you to compatible guests.

  • Keep drinks moderate. Consent requires clarity.
  • Carry your own towel or bedding if the club requests it.
  • Remember staff names; gratitude goes a long way on return visits.

Playroom etiquette

Always ask before joining existing scenes. A lifted eyebrow or smile is not consent.

Bring your own safer-sex supplies. Dispose of used items in designated bins.

  • Use hand sanitizer before and after scenes.
  • Lay down a personal towel or sheet in shared play spaces.
  • Offer aftercare or a friendly thank-you when scenes conclude.

Depart with polish

Settle tabs, tip bartenders and attendants, and thank hosts before leaving.

If you promised to message a new connection, send it within 24 hours while memories are warm.

  • Queue a ride-share in a discreet pickup zone if the club requests it.
  • Do not post about the event without explicit consent from organisers.
  • Note anything the venue requested for next time (IDs, verification, dress shifts).

Quick actions

  • Create a reusable club bag with toiletries, mints, barriers, and a spare outfit.
  • Write a personal etiquette statement for your dating profile to set expectations.
  • Log contact info securely right after the event while details are fresh.

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